Entries by Nelia Gyemfi


Imagine being at loggerheads with someone who has no idea that they are being fought or that they are in a banter? Or better still imagine exchanging words with someone who just smiles at passes by? See how stupid it makes you look. You have given away the opportunity to be the bigger person. ANGER; […]


The world today has made it very difficult for women to deal with their emotions especially anger and so they tend to avoid it for fear of being called derogatory names,dismissed as being overly emotional or said to be on her period. What we’re missing however is that it’s actually right to be angry, whether […]


  In the territory of Garessa, at the other side of the lake of Galilee lived beautiful, depressed, broke and lonely Ruby. She was suffering from severe bleeding for twelve years. Every hospital in the town had her record because she was so desperate to get healed so she moved from clinic to clinic. The […]


  Every one Wins, but you, in the game of anger and resentment. On Friday, I read a piece from my friend and senior learned colleague Eunice Mensah on her blog (livelearnlove4va.blogspot) and she mentioned something that stuck out to me. She said “ I used to think I couldn’t control how I thought.. hear […]

Pull-thread FEMINISM!

Pull- Thread Feminism; My new reality, The Future I want Look up the definition of “Feminism” in the dictionary and you’ll find one or more of these definitions. Feminism is: A. The advocacy of women’s rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes B. The theory of the political, economic, and social equality […]

JEZEBEL; The Slay Queen

JEZEBEL; the slay queen.   For y’all self acclaimed slay queens, here’s a toast to the original and literal slay queen, QUEEN JEZEBEL. I mentioned in one of the posts of Self love that real Queens are too busy putting their kingdom in order and in place. Real promising queens, like Queen Esther, build legacies, […]


THE MISSING LINK: CHARM VS SUBSTANCE Charm and substance is gradually becoming a delicate topic among young Christian women in recent times. There has been constant talk on how to look appealing and attractive without being revealing and subsequently be academically fit, eloquent in speech, courteous, have very strong morals, possess and exhibit a Godly […]


Amidst shouting and yelling on top lungs and intestines, Maame Nyarkoa packed her belongings from her matrimonial bedroom and the closet she had owned for 10 years into the back room of the house, also known as boys quarters. She watched in tears as the Penelope moved into her place. Sadly, this wasn’t over her […]