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{"id":869,"date":"2017-05-21T18:51:27","date_gmt":"2017-05-21T18:51:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/rubiesworth.com\/?p=869"},"modified":"2017-05-21T18:51:27","modified_gmt":"2017-05-21T18:51:27","slug":"%e2%99%a1-self-love-1-%e2%99%a1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rubiesworth.com\/%e2%99%a1-self-love-1-%e2%99%a1\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2661 Self Love 1 \u2661"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/rubiesworth.com\/%e2%99%a1-self-love-1-%e2%99%a1\/20170521_182400\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-872\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-872 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/rubiesworth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/05\/20170521_182400-300x188.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"188\" \/><\/a>A story is told of a young girl who had a rare skin condition known as vitiligo. This condition occurs as a result of lack of melanin so you have both white and black patches on your skin. She developed this condition as early as age 3. She was bullied in school. Ridiculed, made fun off. Others called her names such as zebra (but if you ask me, a zebra is actually a pretty creature, but you can\u2019t blame people for being blind).<br \/>\nToday, she\u2019s a world famous model. She lives a fulfilled life. How she did this? She loved herself. Her name is Chantelle Brown \u2013 Young. In her own words she said \u201cI loved myself, and with that, opportunities started to fall into my lap. And I\u2019m grateful to God for that\u201d.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<em>Gen 1:27 So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female created he them.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Every time you look at yourself in the mirror, you have two options. The first is to see yourself as everyone else sees you. The second is to see the image of God in you. Chantelle had two options in life as a little child faced with such gross stigmatisation. She could either bow her head in shame, Bury her self in her condition and see herself as a worthless piece of rug. She also had the choice to embrace her difference that made her outstanding.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>The truth is each and everyone of us has a distinctive character. Other people\u2019s distinctive character is just more evident than others. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>That Doesn\u2019t make them any less human. Even twins have a distinctive thumb print.<br \/>\nSelf-love is a phenomenon that was regarded as being a form of self worship. Others said it was being selfish or self conceited. Even up until now, it is a taboo to mention self love to the hearing of some Christians.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\nIt\u2019s rather sad, that as children of the light and of the kingdom, we loose guard of what we have. The world takes it from us, then we attempt to copy it back from the world, when we have the original prototype.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">\nA little throw back to grade school, when we were being taught how to write essays, the very first essay we wrote was MYSELF. It may seem very insignificant but why did our teachers ask us to write about ourselves first before attempting others like my best friend, my pet, my family and so on.It was so that based on the knowledge and skills obtained in writing about \u201cMyself\u201d, you would transfer that knowledge and skills in to constructing other essays.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">It is often said, that you can never fully LOVE others until you have learned to love yourself. 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